@flpresets No, I disagree with you. I believe staying on an instance sends the message that you're OK with how it's being operated because they know you won't leave, regardless of how much you hold them accountable.
Yes, I "get it" and can see why someone would take what I said the way you describe, but that wasn't my point nor am I even on the same instance.
Here's another bad analogy. Staying on a bad instance is like staying in a bad relationship for the sake of itself (history).